Elizabeth 6 BIGELOW
16315.A Elizabeth 6 daughter
of Daniel 5
(David4,
Lt. John3,
Joshua2,
John1) BIGELOW
and Sarah (CHAPMAN) BIGELOW, was born 20 Nov 1783 at Colchester,
New London co, CT. She married on 11 Feb 1827, Daniel HEMPSTEAD. They lived
in LeRoy, Genesee co, NY, where he died 21 Aug 1855. She died 29 Sept 1885
at Lakeville, NY, having lived 101 years, 10 months, 9 days. She had no
issue.
This is the Obituary published in Geneseo newspaper, Oct 1885:
More than a Hundred Years
Mrs. Betsey Bigelow Hempstead, who died
at the home of her nephew, Daniel
Bigelow, at Lakeville, on the 29th ult., at the age of nearly 102 years,
was the widow of the late Daniel Hempstead, of LeRoy, Geneseo county, N.Y.,
and the sister of the late Epaphroditus
Bigelow, and for the last ten years has lived in this town where she
died.
She was born in the town of Marlborough,
Hartford county, CT., Nov. 20th, 1783, and is a lineal descendant of John
Bigelow, who emigrated from Wrentham, county of Suffolk, England, to
New England, and settled at Watertown, Mass., where he died July 14th,
1703. Her father, Daniel
Bigelow, was a farmer by occupation, and was born and spent his life
in the town of Marlborough, CT., where he died Nov. 11th, 1822, aged 84
years. He married twice. His first wife was Mary Brainard, of Westchester,
CT., and a descendant of Rev. David Brainard, the noted Indian missionary.
His second wife was Mrs. Sarah F. Ingham Chapman, Saybrook, CT., and the
widow of a Congregationalist minister of that place. By each of these wives
there were born to him seven children, eight sons and six daughters, ten
of whom lived to mature years.
Mrs. Hempstead was the third child by
the second wife, and was the last survivor of this large family, and attained
a greater age than any other member of it. John
D. Bigelow, her cousin, lived to the ripe age of 100 years, 5 months,
and 7 days. His centennial was celebrated with much enthusiasm at his home
in Marlborough, CT., July 23rd, 1870.
On February 11th, 1827, she was united
in marriage to Daniel Hempstead, of her native town, and in September,
1828, removed to the town of LeRoy, N.Y., and settled upon a farm. Here
they dwelt for many years, amid the quiet and retirement of their rural
home, until the decease of her husband, which occurred from accident, Aug
21st, 1855. Having no children, her home became broken, and she subsequently
lived with friends in the vicinity until her removal to this town, Oct.
14th, 1875.
It fell to the lot of Mrs. Hempstead
to watch over and care for her parents in their old age. Her father, for
some years, was nearly helpless, and consequently dependent. She fulfilled
the mission of a faithful daughter to them till the end came. Her mother
died first, Oct. 3d, 1820, aged 72 years, and her father followed about
two years later, as before noted. During her residence with her nephew,
she frequently alluded to this fact in her history, and in connection therewith
would repeat the fifth commandment: "Honor thy father and thy mother, that
thy days may be long in the land which the Lord thy God has given thee,"
and then affirm that she believed the reason the Lord had spared her so
long, was because she had been so kind to her parents in their old age.**
She united with the Congregational church
at Marlborough about the year 1816, and after removal to LeRoy became a
member of the Ashbury Methodist church there, and retained her connection
with that church till her death. She had the usual infirmities attendant
upon great age, such as deafness, disabled limbs, and imperfect memory,
but up to a short time before her death retained a well preserved eyesight
and fair bodily health, spending most of the time in reading her Bible
and hymn book. The remains of the deceased were taken to LeRoy on Thursday
last and buried near those of her husband.
** Her nephew Daniel 7 cared for her
for 10 years until she died. A story related by Daniel's descendant Harold
B. Davis says that Daniel used to carry Betsy out to the outhouse every
day for 10 years, and he was no young man either. He must have had the
same philosophy.
Sources:
Bigelow Society, The Bigelow Family Genealogy Vol I, pg 328.
Howe, Bigelow Family of America;
Obituary in Geneseo newspaper(above)
Correspondence with Harold B. Davis.
Rod Bigelow (Roger Jon12 BIGELOW)
8 Prospect Circle
Massena, N.Y. 13662
bigelow@slic.com
Rod Bigelow at SLIC
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