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Children of Timothy Spencer and Sarah Ann (Tenney) Bigelow:
12116.2A1+ Oscar Spencer, b 1844 Charlestown, MA; d 1872 Winona, MA; m 1868 Matilda Warner of Keyport, NJ.
12116.2A2+ Abbie, b 1845 Somerville, MA; d___ Chicago, IL; m l874 Charles B. Foote of Chicago.
Sources:
The Bigelow Family Genealogy, Volume II, page 3-4; error:
12116.29.
Howe, Bigelow Family of America; page 279;
and letter,"Forge, Bigelow Society Quarterly;" May 1994, Vol.
23, No. 2, page 27.
May 1994 Forge has a letter, on page 27, (vol 23, No.2) from Sarah
Ann (Tenny) Bigelow d/o Robert G. and Abigail Tenny. Sarah and
Timothy
died same year 1855 at Somerville, MA. 2 ch.--Sarah's letter is to her
parents from on board Ship R. C. Winthrop, August 6, 1852. They married
8 Jun 1842, Nantucket, MA.
My dearest parents:
It is now Sunday morning and we re within six hundred miles of
California. Now the mail will leave next Saturday and if we have a fair
wind we shall probably arive in season to send this. I know how
anxious you are
to her how we are and what kind of a life we have led the lat 4
months. You are sensible that I must have thought much about you,
my dear Father
and Mother, and all our dear Friends at home. Sometimes I have
felt
lonely but as much as possible have looked on the bright side, thinking
tht
when we reached Martinez we should find letters saying you were all
well. I hope you have not neglected to write, if you have I shall
give up. We have all enjoyed excellent health since we left
you. the first two or three days out we all three were seasick.
Oscar suffered the
most, I think, but after we crossed the gulf Stream we soon got over
it.
We had the roughest part of our passage there and I have had a much
pleasanter
voyag than I expected. We had some very warm weather before and
after
crossing the Line on the Atlantic side but we had a very pleasant time
coming
round Cape Horn. We had a fire in the cabin about 4 weeks and we
have
had cool and comfortable weather since then. And now I must say
that
I have been happily disappointed in this voyage; we have had no gales
of
wind, in fact the little Joes have been delighted to go on deck in the
heaviest
gales we have had and see the spray wash over the ship. We have had no
trouble
to keep in our berths or take our meals at the table. I can't say
timothy
has gained in flesh since we left but his health is good as
usual.
As for me I cannot say how much I weigh but this much I will say that I
never
was so fleshy in my life. My dresses are too tight and I have had
to
let out the sleeves and wrist-bands. Oscar has grown tall, has a good
appetite
and is happy as can be. sometimes he wishes that John Hanly and
Leonard
Burrows was here and he wants me to tell them to come. As for
Sis,
she is as fleshy and black as you can think. She often speaks of
Grandpa
and Grandma and when it comes night they both expect me to sit down and
tell
them what you are doing at home and if Grandmother has any little girl
to
live with her and wonders if Grandpa holds the pussy as he used to. She
wants to see Lucy but is afraid she will be as large as Eliza
when
we see her again and then she won't hug and kiss her. The Capt.,
is
a very pleasant man. He has indulged the children and in fact he
has
been very kind to us all. It was so pleasant when we were off
Cape
Horn that he proposed my making candy for the children and we
made
it as often as we wanted it while we had a fire in the cabin. We
have
a verty plesant company and the time has passed more pleasantly than I
expected.
Thimothy thinks I show my keeping and wait as patiently as he could
expect,
but the time seems long now we are so near port. I am tired of
this
indolent life though I have sewed a great deal and have had no small
share
of washing for the children. There is as much dirt here as on
shore
and the trouble is salt water won't start it. Timothy has done
his
washing all the voyage.
August 12. We are now within 150 miles of the Golden
City with light winds but hope to see land tomorrow night and if we
live I hope to hear that all our dear friends are well. I have left
this for an hour to
make pies. Now you shall have our bill of fare for one wek and
then you have the whole voyage. Sunday morn, fresh
salmon, noon, fresh
beef and vegetables soup; Monday, boiled tongue; Tuesday, baked
beans
and corned beef; Wednesday, boiled ham; Thursday as Sunday;
Friday,
Beans; Saturday, salt fish. Warm bread in the morning and
pudding
of some kind every day since we left home. I don't think much
of the
cook or steward. they made the pies a few times but I
could
not eat them and I proposed to Mrs. Pinkham, a passenger from East
Boston, that we would make them, so the steward would fetch the things
to the pantry near my room and we have had apple and mince pies as
often as we wanted. We have had tea for dinner, I (and)
the ladies; coffee and chocolate for breakfast. As for the
outdoor sights we saw no land until we made Statten Land, off
Cape Horn. At the
distance we saw it, it appeared a solid ledge of rocks, about
200
feet above the level of the sea and the top was covered with
snow. We have seen land but once since and it looked more like
clouds than anythings else so you must know that a tree or even a blade
of grass will be beautiful to us. We have had two sharks and
cow fish and porpoises in abundance on deck. Twice we
have had fresh fish that has been caught from the ship but they
are not as niceas the fish at
home. We have seen a great many birds and have had 3 on
deck that Oscar caught but they are not fit to eat and he let
them go. We
have seen any quantity of whales, some very large. We
have just
taken a pilot on board and it is time to close this letter.
I
don't think much of writing on board a ship but I think you can
make out to read it. We shall go to Martinez tomorrow and stop
at Capt. Coffin's till our things can come up from the ship, a
week or more. I will again by the 15 of next month.
Pray don't fail to write every month and
oftener if you can. Nan Henry got home abnd is Sarah Lindsay
living. My love to my dear parents and to all the dear
brothers and sisters, to Mr. and Mrs. Burrows and all that
family. I shall never forget their kindness to me and my
children. Timothy sends his love to all. the children stand
teasing at my elbow to send kisses to Grandpa and Grandma and
all the Uncles and Aunts. They often wish Eugene was here
to play with them. Sis sends kisses
to the Hanly girls and wants them to come to California. I
will write to each of the girls and Caroline when I get settled in my
new
home. I look forward with pleasure to the time when I shall
hgave
a quiet home with my dear husband. Give my love to all
the neighbors,
write all the news. How is William Alfred getting along?
I have
thought much about him. good night from your
affectionate.........Daughter Sarah
(signed Sarah Tenney Bigelow)
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Note written by Sarah's daughter, Abbie (Bigelow) Foote:
The "quiet home" was on a ranch, miles from Martinez, with the nearest
neighbor 1/2 mile distant and the next 1 1/3 mile. It was not
possible to get to them when wild cattle were in the valley. The
stay there was short--not more than one year -- and they returned
across the Isthmus of Panama. My parents stopped in MY City for
medical treatment for my father, we children being sent home to Grandpa
Tenney's. they soon joined us, however. My
father did not live more than a year after that. the first letter
which
my mother received on reaching California bore tidings of the death of
her
mother.
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Note by Mrs. Joseph (Martha) OTTO (great granddaughter of Sarah and
Timothy Bigelow:------The ship on which her great grandparents sailed
left the port of Boston.
Persons with information about Timothy and Sarah Bigelow are asked
to
write:
Mrs Martha OTTO, 24 Lakewood Dr., Belleville, IL 62223--Contributed by:
Paul B. Beach.
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